Gothic fashion is a subculture that refuses to be diluted, defined by its dark, often dramatic aesthetics, and a strong sense of individualism. To get an unfiltered perspective, I sat down with Lily, a no-nonsense goth girl who’s been deeply entrenched in this style for years. Our conversation was as bold as her wardrobe, diving into how she uses fashion, especially tights, to express herself and push against the norms.
Q: Lily, thanks for taking the time to talk. Let’s jump right in—what does gothic fashion mean to you, and how did you get into it?
Lily: Gothic fashion isn’t just a style—it’s a statement. It’s about embracing the darker side of life and rejecting the mundane crap that most people cling to. I got into it as a teenager because mainstream fashion didn’t speak to me at all. I wasn’t interested in pastel colors or whatever was trendy. I was drawn to the depth and the edge of goth fashion, and the music, of course. Bands like Bauhaus and Siouxsie and the Banshees opened my eyes to a whole world where I didn’t have to fit in, I could stand out.
Q: Tights are a big part of gothic fashion—how do you incorporate them into your look?
Lily: Tights are essential, but they’re not just an accessory—they’re part of the attitude. I’m not talking about basic black tights, though those have their place. I’m into ripped fishnets, lace patterns, and anything that adds texture and a little chaos to the outfit. There’s something raw and rebellious about wearing tights that are deliberately torn or have an intricate design that draws the eye. It’s like wearing your defiance on your legs.
Q: What are some of your go-to looks involving tights?
Lily: For everyday looks, I love pairing ripped fishnets with a leather mini skirt and combat boots. It’s a classic, but it still makes a statement. If I’m going for something more elaborate, like for a concert or a night out, I’ll wear patterned tights—lace or something with a unique design—under a long, flowing skirt or a dress with a high slit. It’s all about contrasts: soft and hard, dark and darker. And yeah, layering tights over other hosiery or under skirts with exaggerated silhouettes adds depth to the outfit. It’s like art, but wearable.
Q: Gothic fashion often gets misunderstood or stereotyped. What’s your take on that?
Lily: People will always misunderstand what they don’t get. Some think goth is all doom and gloom, but it’s not. It’s about finding beauty in the things most people are afraid to look at—death, decay, the darker aspects of humanity. My fashion isn’t for them, and I’m not interested in their approval. Goth isn’t about fitting in; it’s about standing out and being unapologetically yourself. So yeah, if someone thinks it’s “too much” or “weird,” that’s their problem, not mine.
Q: How do you see gothic fashion influencing mainstream trends today?
Lily: Mainstream fashion loves to dip its toes into goth style when it’s convenient, like during Halloween or when a designer decides that “dark” is in for the season. But true gothic fashion is more than just a trend—it’s a lifestyle. That said, I do see elements of goth seeping into mainstream fashion—things like chokers, dark lipstick, and, yes, even patterned or fishnet tights. It’s funny to see these things become “trendy” when goths have been rocking them for decades. But whatever—let them play dress-up.
Q: Finally, any advice for someone new to gothic fashion?
Lily: Don’t half-ass it. If you’re drawn to it, embrace it fully. Don’t worry about what’s “acceptable” or what other people think. Gothic fashion is about expressing your inner self, the parts of you that don’t fit into the mainstream mold. Start with the basics—black, lots of it—but don’t be afraid to experiment with textures, layers, and, of course, tights. And most importantly, wear it like you mean it. Confidence is key in pulling off any look, especially one as bold as goth.
Final Thoughts
Gothic fashion isn’t for the faint-hearted, and neither is Lily. Her unapologetic approach to style, especially how she incorporates tights into her outfits, reflects the essence of goth culture—bold, rebellious, and fiercely individualistic. Whether you’re a seasoned goth or just curious about the subculture, there’s a lot to learn from those who live and breathe this lifestyle every day.
